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At LifeWorks Mental Health Counseling PLLC , we believe that deep emotional connection is not a luxury, it’s a human need. That’s why we’re excited to announce the launch of our Hold Me Tight® Couples Workshop  in 2026, now offered at our Commack, NY location . This powerful, evidence-based relationship workshop is designed to help couples reconnect, repair emotional injuries, and rebuild secure attachment. Whether your relationship feels distant, stuck in conflict, or impac

One of the Hardest Questions You’ll Ever Ask “Should I stay or should I go?” This is one of the most painful and confusing questions people bring into therapy. You may love your partner, share history, or hope things will improve, yet still feel emotionally drained, unsafe, or deeply unhappy. At LifeWorks Mental Health Counseling Practice PLLC , we work with individuals and couples navigating this exact crossroads. Our goal is not to tell you what to do, but to help you gain

What Is an Attachment Injury? When trust is broken in a relationship, the emotional wound can feel overwhelming. Research from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) describes these moments as attachment injuries . These injuries happen when one partner desperately needs emotional support, and the other is unavailable, dismissive, unfaithful, or even hurtful. Common attachment injuries include: Infidelity or emotional affairs Significant lies or hidden behaviors A betrayal of vuln

Introduction: Why the Holidays Are Hard for Co-Parents The holiday season brings excitement, but for divorced or separated parents, it can also increase conflict, anxiety, and emotional tension.  Schedules shift Traditions feel complicated Parents may have different expectations Children often feel caught in the middle. Research shows that parental conflict (not divorce or separation itself) is what has the most potential for harm . Co-parents who communicate clearly, manage

Understanding Trauma: Big “T” vs. Small “t” When most people think of trauma, they picture major life-threatening events like war, car accidents, or natural disasters. These can be called “Big T” traumas , or experiences that overwhelm your sense of safety and deeply affect your body and mind. But not all trauma looks like this. Many people experience what’s known as “small t” trauma , which includes ongoing stressors such as emotional neglect, bullying, or living in a critic

Psychotherapy for adults is trending towards an old, but valuable theoretical model....Attachment Theory. Clinicians and researchers are...